Their Memorial Day Meditation from 2007 is a good way to honor those who have served, but still holding true to values of a peaceful existence.
Other Memorial Day Meditations
From Bellaonline, a Memorial Day Prayer and a Memorial Day Prayer and Meditation Ceremony both from Susan Helene Kramer. For the ceremony they start with this lovely prayer:
We show our thankfulness in prayer
This honor you deserve
Giving all for freedom's call
That we may live without reserve.
Another more reflective Memorial Day Meditation comes from the blog, "An Innocent Okie Lost on the Potomac" written by Unbleached Brun.
The Remember on Memorial Days lens on Squidoo is one that I wrote last year, to honor and remember those who have served.